
First of all, don't believe a damn thing you hear on Larry King. Oy. He managed to find two of the biggest wingnuts in all of the US to be the voices of autism. Fucker.
Landru has summed up my feelings on most of the issues brilliantly here. Then, if you just want to understand the concept of nerodiversity and why it's a good thing, not a bad thing, go to Kathleen Seidel's site here. I will warn you, though, some of her research will make you want to throw things at men named Grier and others. The UK perspective--and a damn smart one at that--can be found at Kevin Leitch's site here. For one of the all-around best medical/science bullshit debunking blogs on the planet, go read Orac here.
Then go hug your kid. I would hug mine right now, but he's at the Chattanooga Aquarium, checking out God only knows what and telling who knows what kind of stories to perfect strangers. Yesterday, my Asperger-diagnosed son, who is seven, used the words "clever" and "alas" in conversation on his own. Just because they were the best words he could think of. "Wow, Mom, those egg hiding places sure are clever!" and "Alas, my mom never lets me have those". Cure? Hell, no. I want what he has. I think I might have used the word clever conversationally for the first time as an adult and I'm not sure I've ever use alas unless I was being an overdramatic smartass.
Landru has summed up my feelings on most of the issues brilliantly here. Then, if you just want to understand the concept of nerodiversity and why it's a good thing, not a bad thing, go to Kathleen Seidel's site here. I will warn you, though, some of her research will make you want to throw things at men named Grier and others. The UK perspective--and a damn smart one at that--can be found at Kevin Leitch's site here. For one of the all-around best medical/science bullshit debunking blogs on the planet, go read Orac here.
Then go hug your kid. I would hug mine right now, but he's at the Chattanooga Aquarium, checking out God only knows what and telling who knows what kind of stories to perfect strangers. Yesterday, my Asperger-diagnosed son, who is seven, used the words "clever" and "alas" in conversation on his own. Just because they were the best words he could think of. "Wow, Mom, those egg hiding places sure are clever!" and "Alas, my mom never lets me have those". Cure? Hell, no. I want what he has. I think I might have used the word clever conversationally for the first time as an adult and I'm not sure I've ever use alas unless I was being an overdramatic smartass.
Labels: autism, good sites, sam

sam and me on the first day of school. this is before I took the reds out of my hair (and covered my atrocious roots).
Labels: hair stuff, pictures, sam
soooooo, i got my hair cut. and when i say cut, i mean serious, no-holds-barred, shorter than my sons' in the back, cut. i was just ready for a change and i decided to embrace my inner posh and go long in front, short in back. i wanted it more like hers but my bangs aren't long enough to pull that off yet, so we did it shorter on the sides and in the back--this way it should grow out fairly smoothly.
anyway, when i got home, i had some serious roots and higlight gaps because she cut a lot off the top and we sort of changed the part. no problem-i always have highlights and/or color around, so i just whipped out the highlights and fixed the problem. or so i thought. i didn't look at the back in the full light and it never even dawned on me that the majority of the color on the back of my head ended up on the floor of the shop (i'm not always brilliantly logical irl). today, sam was checking out my hair and he got very excited.
yeah, sam, really cool. and now i've got to color--but i just did highlights, so if i color over them, i'll lose them and have to do them again--and i really like them right now. damn, damn, damn.
photo--not particularly flattering, but you can see how short the hair is.

anyway, when i got home, i had some serious roots and higlight gaps because she cut a lot off the top and we sort of changed the part. no problem-i always have highlights and/or color around, so i just whipped out the highlights and fixed the problem. or so i thought. i didn't look at the back in the full light and it never even dawned on me that the majority of the color on the back of my head ended up on the floor of the shop (i'm not always brilliantly logical irl). today, sam was checking out my hair and he got very excited.
how cool! your hair is brown like mine in the back!
yeah, sam, really cool. and now i've got to color--but i just did highlights, so if i color over them, i'll lose them and have to do them again--and i really like them right now. damn, damn, damn.
photo--not particularly flattering, but you can see how short the hair is.

Labels: hair stuff, pictures, sam
we made a video.
i'm going to change the whole site around when i get some gumption--the pictures are over a year old. he's getting irritated with me.
i'm going to change the whole site around when i get some gumption--the pictures are over a year old. he's getting irritated with me.
Labels: all the cool kids like Dweeze use video, announcements, sam

